Dealing with any parenting challenge is easier with solid support from a source you know and trust. Particularly during the first year or two of parenting (and plenty of times after that, as well), we question our own abilities to deal with the ongoing challenges. This is for good reason, as most of us have never embarked on a role more challenging or stressful. No career experience can prepare one for parenting.
This questioning can easily spiral into doubt, lack of confidence, and provide fodder for disagreements with our partner, family members, and friends. Often a second or third child brings up new issues that are unfamiliar and difficult.
It's fascinating to me that while much time and energy is devoted to all the nuances of decorating the baby's room and signing up for all the 'right' activities and classes, it's often unclear where the parent will turn when there is a question or challenge that is not addressed in the readily available channels.
New parents are typically stressed with just making it through the day and week. They are handed dilemnas and questions on a daily basis, some more pressing than others.
What if you had a wise and trusted person in your life with whom you could consult regarding parenting as needed, to vent, ask questions, reflect, or any combination thereof? How would you benefit from increasing your own skills in accessing your own parenting wisdom, while understanding more about this path of great opportunity?
Ingrid at babyshaman.com is dedicated to working with you to evoke the best parent in you, keep you learning about yourself, and support you in your choices in parenting.
Monday, May 26, 2008
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